IS THIS A RED FLAG OR I AM JUST OVER THINKING?

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 Please Keep Me Anonymous I met my boyfriend 2yrs ago at my previous work place, we got talking and he said he like me and he asked me out on a date, but i have a policy, i don't date my colleagues at work, this was in my head so i wasn't even catching any feelings but then we still stayed as friends. He wanted to be very close, he wanted to know more about me but i just kept him in the colleague relationship zone.  Few months after, i left the work place without informing him, he was disappointed at the fact that i didn't regard him as much as he does for me, i apologized and we continued talking, he asked me out again and this time he wasn't giving me any breathing space so i decided to give it a try. To tell the truth i was finding it difficult to trust him, i tried to open up to him like real couples should but i couldn't although i just broke up with m ex at the time so that must be the reason few weeks into the relationship i ghosted him. He started to look fo...
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I AM BEGINING TO GET FRUSTRATED

 Please Keep Me Anonymous



I am now in my early 30's but i still cant lay my hands on a man and as that is not enough i keep falling into the hands of those that will use and dump me.

My ex is the reason why i have decided to voice out, i dated him for two years and its been a hell of a relationship, we were good initially, i taught he was the best person for me but i was wrong.

He did all manner of things, cheating, stealing my money, manipulate me, bully me. i promise all i did for him was with the intention to help him, i need help to but i taught that if i support him to achieve his dreams then i will be relieved of some responsibilities besides i love him and i was committed to him and the relationship.

Almost a year into the relationship, he complained to me that his rent is due and he doesn't have anywhere to go, i asked him to move into my apartment so when he gets funds he would rent another apartment. This was the worst decision of my life, he started to watch my every move,  i cant talk to any guy but he talks to different girls, even in my presence. 

He knows the password to my phone and atm cards but he hides his from me. One day i asked why he never introduced me to any of his friends or family, he replied and said he is still observing me to know i am a wife material.

He want me to be a wife material but he cannot be a husband material. Later he resolved to hitting me and calling me names, that was when i made the decision to leave him. i went ahead to changed my passwords, rented another apartment and left the house the day he wasn't around.

Few days ago, he came to my new apartment and was threatening me, i have no idea how he found out where i was, he keeps following me everywhere, i already told him i am no longer interested but he keeps telling me we are stuck forever.

This is the situation i have found myself, please help me, i need advice.


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