IS THIS A RED FLAG OR I AM JUST OVER THINKING?

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 Please Keep Me Anonymous I met my boyfriend 2yrs ago at my previous work place, we got talking and he said he like me and he asked me out on a date, but i have a policy, i don't date my colleagues at work, this was in my head so i wasn't even catching any feelings but then we still stayed as friends. He wanted to be very close, he wanted to know more about me but i just kept him in the colleague relationship zone.  Few months after, i left the work place without informing him, he was disappointed at the fact that i didn't regard him as much as he does for me, i apologized and we continued talking, he asked me out again and this time he wasn't giving me any breathing space so i decided to give it a try. To tell the truth i was finding it difficult to trust him, i tried to open up to him like real couples should but i couldn't although i just broke up with m ex at the time so that must be the reason few weeks into the relationship i ghosted him. He started to look fo...
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I am stuck with two brothers.


 Please Make Me Anonymous,

I have been working with this couple ever since i was 8years old, they brought me in to work as a maid but they took care of me like their own  daughter, i was educated, i never really felt like i wasnt part of the family, they had two boys and one girl, the boys are older than i am but i am older than the girl.

The real problem started when i was 14years old, the second son took a liking toward me, i didnt really think it was a big deal initially because i saw him like a brother, he would always defend me whenever anyone tries to speak ill of me, he would give me money from his own allowance, he would buy me things at every opportunity he gets. 

I realised this was more than a brotherly love when i started to crush on the older son, i just knew it was more than the brother to sister kind of feeling. whenever my school mate talks about their crush and how they want their love life to be, i would wish that the older son feels the same for me.

One faithful day, our parent were not at home, it was just me, the boys and the sister. The older brother suddenly called me to the room, he said his siblings shouldn't interrupt us, he want to have a private discussion with me. I got to the room curious of what he wanted to talk to me about, i hoped he says he likes me too, but to my surprise he asked me if i wanted to be his friend with benefit.  i knew what friend with benefit was but i taught he liked me and didn't know the best way to put it and i like him too, he was 18years old at the time, i agreed on the spot without thinking twice.

We started doing all sort of romance and all, he deflowered me a week after. i was sneacking in and out of his room, no one noticed except his brother, he confronted me and threatened to tell his parents, i knew he was heartbroken and he could tell his mum out of jealousy so i promised i would be his girlfriend. i taught he was innocent and he wouldn't know much about intimacy but i was wrong, he wanted to be intimate. i tried dodging and manovering the whole thing untill he noticed and he insisted he would spend the night in my room, he did and we were initmate ever since.

This went on for almost a year, both of them now know that i am sleeping with the both of them, now they are requesting that the 3 of us sleep together. i am 16years old, i am tired of all of this, i want to stop but anytime i try raising up the topic they would threaten to send me back to where i came from.

I am scared i will ruin my future, i am in SSS 3 now, i can't focus because i am scared to go home to meet the problem i created for myself. Please i need your advice, what can i do?

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