IS THIS A RED FLAG OR I AM JUST OVER THINKING?

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 Please Keep Me Anonymous I met my boyfriend 2yrs ago at my previous work place, we got talking and he said he like me and he asked me out on a date, but i have a policy, i don't date my colleagues at work, this was in my head so i wasn't even catching any feelings but then we still stayed as friends. He wanted to be very close, he wanted to know more about me but i just kept him in the colleague relationship zone.  Few months after, i left the work place without informing him, he was disappointed at the fact that i didn't regard him as much as he does for me, i apologized and we continued talking, he asked me out again and this time he wasn't giving me any breathing space so i decided to give it a try. To tell the truth i was finding it difficult to trust him, i tried to open up to him like real couples should but i couldn't although i just broke up with m ex at the time so that must be the reason few weeks into the relationship i ghosted him. He started to look fo...
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REAL LIFE STORY 2

This Pastor took my only source of livelihood


My name is Ananymous and I am a 38 yearsold widow with four children.


I am a Farmer, I rear goat and plant cassava on the piece of land my late husband left for me. I worked extra hard to raise my children, I try to be in good terms with my neighbour, a pastor who owns the church opposite my farm, but he just hates me for no reason.


Yes, he invited me for church programs a couple of times but i declined. I am a muslim, he shouldn't expect much from me.


He constantly complains about the stench and noise that comes from my farm. In all sincerity I try my best and I have called him on several occasions to beg him and make him reason with me. 

One day, one of my she-goat gave birth to 3 kids. I was overjoyed as I knew how much I would make off them when they grow. I fed and took care of them before leaving. 



Getting back to the farm the next day I met this pastor smashing a kid with a huge stone right in front of this church. For a second I taught I was seeing things. I recognised the lifeless goat lying on the ground at once. I became furious and pushed him hard in a fit of anger. 

I mean, what could the innocent kid do to deserve such judgement. I turned around to see how it got out in the first place, I was sure I locked them up before leaving the previous day. I got the greatest shock of my life. Not a single goat was found. 


I stood still, trying to process what was happening when I heard a loud scream outside my farm. I went out to see what was going on then I realised the man I pushed was lying unconsciously on the ground, beside him was his wife wailing. 


I was numb, no emotion crossed my eyes as I walked back home like a walking corpse, all I wanted was to find my livestocks. 

An hour after I got home, 2 male police came knocking at my door and arrested me. I got to the police station and I was locked up, they refused to listen to my part of the story.

 

Fortunately for me, the Pastor is still alive but I was to pay all his medical bills and also a huge amount of money for his upkeep.

 

This is beyond me, please what can I do. 




Dear Reader, Help this woman with the best advice you have to help her out of this situation in the comment section. Thank you.

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