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IS THIS A RED FLAG OR I AM JUST OVER THINKING?

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 Please Keep Me Anonymous I met my boyfriend 2yrs ago at my previous work place, we got talking and he said he like me and he asked me out on a date, but i have a policy, i don't date my colleagues at work, this was in my head so i wasn't even catching any feelings but then we still stayed as friends. He wanted to be very close, he wanted to know more about me but i just kept him in the colleague relationship zone.  Few months after, i left the work place without informing him, he was disappointed at the fact that i didn't regard him as much as he does for me, i apologized and we continued talking, he asked me out again and this time he wasn't giving me any breathing space so i decided to give it a try. To tell the truth i was finding it difficult to trust him, i tried to open up to him like real couples should but i couldn't although i just broke up with m ex at the time so that must be the reason few weeks into the relationship i ghosted him. He started to look fo...
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IS THIS A RED FLAG OR I AM JUST OVER THINKING?

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 Please Keep Me Anonymous I met my boyfriend 2yrs ago at my previous work place, we got talking and he said he like me and he asked me out on a date, but i have a policy, i don't date my colleagues at work, this was in my head so i wasn't even catching any feelings but then we still stayed as friends. He wanted to be very close, he wanted to know more about me but i just kept him in the colleague relationship zone.  Few months after, i left the work place without informing him, he was disappointed at the fact that i didn't regard him as much as he does for me, i apologized and we continued talking, he asked me out again and this time he wasn't giving me any breathing space so i decided to give it a try. To tell the truth i was finding it difficult to trust him, i tried to open up to him like real couples should but i couldn't although i just broke up with m ex at the time so that must be the reason few weeks into the relationship i ghosted him. He started to look fo...
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I AM BEGINING TO GET FRUSTRATED

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 Please Keep Me Anonymous I am now in my early 30's but i still cant lay my hands on a man and as that is not enough i keep falling into the hands of those that will use and dump me. My ex is the reason why i have decided to voice out, i dated him for two years and its been a hell of a relationship, we were good initially, i taught he was the best person for me but i was wrong. He did all manner of things, cheating, stealing my money, manipulate me, bully me. i promise all i did for him was with the intention to help him, i need help to but i taught that if i support him to achieve his dreams then i will be relieved of some responsibilities besides i love him and i was committed to him and the relationship. Almost a year into the relationship, he complained to me that his rent is due and he doesn't have anywhere to go, i asked him to move into my apartment so when he gets funds he would rent another apartment. This was the worst decision of my life, he started to watch my every...
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I DON'T WANT TO LOOSE MY FAMILY

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Please Keep Me Anonymous I am a young man of 32years old, I started making real money at 23 but things turned south few years after so i decided to start doing some technical home works for people since i am good with electronics. I am married with kids This work made me exposed and i started to meet people on the Island as well, ladies most especially, they pay for my services well but i dont know what these ladies see in me, they always want to have an affair with me even the married ones. I seriously don't like to share my personal life but i just wanted to talk since this is almost ruining my family. There is this client that calls me for monthly maintainance. She has been making seductive gestures at me but i always try my best to avoid her, so this particular day she called me saying i need to come urgently, she said the AC in her room is not working and she would be having a guest, i left immediately because i know she pays well, getting to the house, i didn't see anyone...
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Is it a crime to marry a Pastor?

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 Please Keep Me Anonymous I got married to a Pastor, No one forced me to marry him, i married him after my ex cheated on me with his cousin, he was having an affair with her so i taught that marrying a pastor would keep me emotionally safe, as he already knows these things are bad, he wouldn't dare. He was a single father of two when i met him, i am also a single mum, and i have been doing very well for myself. we got married few month after we met, he already has a church he runs but his house was still uncompleted, i was doing very well in my business so i supported him with funds and in two month, the house was completed and fully furnished. I bought 2 sienna, i gave him one and the other for my business. Ever since i got married to him, i showed him everything i had, i made sure the money i was making was going to his account so that he doesn't feel less of a man. i summited to him completely but he doesn't really acknowledge my effort. There is this particular woman th...
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I AM ADDICTED

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 Please Keep Me Anonymous Please i need your advice, what can i do I don't know how to stop spending money whenever there is money with me, even when the money belong to someone else. The most annoying part is that they see as a responsible person, they just believe i am the right person to keep their money My colleagues at work decided that they will be keeping their money with me each month and then collect it by December, they have been doing this since march. As they are putting the money in my account, i have no idea how i spend it or what i spend it on, i just keep spending. In church i am the treasurer in the choir department, i am handling all our choir offering and contribution, if you ask me now, i have no account for it. My  mum trusted her money with me, she is starting a business soon, i don't know what to tell her once she is ready to use the money. This has been happening ever since i was young, whenever i have money or money was kept with me, if i dont spend it...
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Am I cursed?

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 Please Keep Me Anonymous For some reason the opposite gender has been attracted to me ever since i was 6, i was smart so i just knew if a boy, guy or man tries to make any suspicious move on me, had the time even my parents never told us things about sex education. when i was 6, my Dad friends came around, my sister and i came out to the living room to greet them but then they started asking us questions about school and all, that was how we got used to them whenever they came around. There was this particular tall friend of my Dad who always blows me kiss whenever they are leaving, i didnt feel comfortable about it but he was nice so it didnt bother me much Few days after , this particular man came alone without the other friend because they were two of them, he came to our house alone with snacks, he gave it to me and asked me to bring my home work so he can put me through. My dad was around but since we were with his friend, he just continued what he was doing. All of a sudden ...
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I am stuck with two brothers.

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 Please Make Me Anonymous, I have been working with this couple ever since i was 8years old, they brought me in to work as a maid but they took care of me like their own  daughter, i was educated, i never really felt like i wasnt part of the family, they had two boys and one girl, the boys are older than i am but i am older than the girl. The real problem started when i was 14years old, the second son took a liking toward me, i didnt really think it was a big deal initially because i saw him like a brother, he would always defend me whenever anyone tries to speak ill of me, he would give me money from his own allowance, he would buy me things at every opportunity he gets.  I realised this was more than a brotherly love when i started to crush on the older son, i just knew it was more than the brother to sister kind of feeling. whenever my school mate talks about their crush and how they want their love life to be, i would wish that the older son feels the same for me. One...
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